I'm trying to facilitate resizing a control (as you would designing a form).
I've managed to find out how to change the border which allows resizing but
when I reset the border the control returns to its original appearance.

Can anyone point me in the right direction?

If I knew how to get the controls size properties while it was being
stretched that would do.

If anyone knows how to display the border as dots (ie. resize handles) that
would be even better.